The Meaning Behind Our Valentine’s Flowers
- Elinor Delargy

- Feb 9
- 2 min read

People have been using flowers to say how they feel for a very long time - often when words feel a bit clumsy or not quite enough. I’m always aware of that when I’m putting together our Valentine’s flowers. Certain blooms have gathered meaning over the years, and it’s quite nice to know what you might be saying without spelling it out.
Roses are the obvious choice for Valentine’s Day, but there’s a reason they’ve stuck around. They’re all about love and affection, whether that’s deep and romantic or a little softer and more understated. A bouquet with roses simply says, you matter to me.
Tulips feel very honest to me. They’re warm, open and quietly confident - often linked with love that’s genuine and uncomplicated. I love using them at this time of year because they also bring that first hint of spring, which feels hopeful and fresh. Whether they’re tightly packed or loosely arranged, tulips always give a sense of joy and sincerity. They’re perfect if you want something romantic without it feeling predictable or overdone.
Ranunculus are traditionally associated with attraction and admiration. They add softness and a sense of something special without shouting.
Lilies have a real presence. They’re elegant and calm, and often linked with devotion and respect. In a Valentine’s arrangement they feel thoughtful and assured - a quieter kind of romance.
Orchids are a little different. They’re long-lasting, sculptural and feel quite intentional. They’re often associated with strength and rare beauty, which makes them a lovely choice when you want to give something that feels considered and lasting.
But don't think too hard about it. At the end of the day, flowers don’t need a meaning to be meaningful - but knowing a little about what different blooms symbolise can add another layer to your gift. Whether it’s something classic, seasonal or slightly unexpected, it’s really about choosing what feels right.







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